All these while I’ve been learning how to be a better man, below are the summarized version of what I’ve learn during my life to be a man. Let me share with you some thoughts, so we all can grow ourselve and improve the way we see things.
1) Career Comes First
Learn to build wealth.
Please focus on your career before 30’s because a man without career is nothing.
2) Do Not Too Emphasize On Money
Do not complaint about how low is your wages or doesn’t have future. Learn as much as you can. Life is a learning journey, you will never know what opportunity is waiting for you infront if you are well prepared.
3) Learn To Tolerate Your Parents
They might be nagging you day and night; this is all because in their eyes you are still their baby. Now they are getting old, all you need to make them happy is perhaps a call from you or a small gift to show how you care about them. It’s simple
4) Get to Know True Friends
Friends can make a big influence in your life. Know lesser Hi-Bye friends; get at least a true friend that will be there for you when you are in need. If you met anyone like that, appreciate them, you might be surprise what they can help out in the future. No matter they are rich or less-rich now.
5) Do Not Put Too Much Expectation In Love Relationship
You heart must always fill in love, but do not expect all promises will last forever; responsible is much important. Follow your heart but if things doesn’t go well, learn to let go.
6) Do Not Worry If You Are Still Have Not Found Any Love
Love is not about quantity but quality. Do not worry if you are still yet to get a girlfriend before 30’s. You will have lot’s of chances to met great women in your life time. Man will not depreciate when get more mature. A mature love relationship will always last longer. Don’t court every girls that passed you by like a mad dog. Learn how to enjoy when you are alone.
7) Do Not Obsess In Any Entertainment
Too much of entertainment will drain your energy and spoiled your future. Try to segregate time for your hobbies and not to affect your life goal.
8 ) Do Not Give Up When You Have Failed
You did not fail; you have just successfully discovered a way that doesn’t work well. Everyone learn from failure. Don’t give up and try again with a better way until you success.
9) Be Responsible
People respect a man who holds his words. Great power comes with great responsibility; if you want to be a great man, you have to take ownership and learn how to build trust and respect from people by being responsible.
10) Keep The Little Child In Your Heart
Burrow deep inside your heart; please keep a little space for your pure heart. I am not asking you to be childish, but sometimes you will feel happier if you makes things simpler. Try not to be too calculative and comparative. Life is not fair anyway.
